Self awareness and reflection....

had a nice msn conversation wif one of a stream uncle and they do realise about my chao pattern...my communication skill is terrible leaving ppl having the feeling of me being arrogant.

Driving my uncle ard a pass a old Community Center tat had been turned into an old folks home...I said tats a old CC, he said no lar..CC is infront of tat old folks home...I'm 100% sure I'm right cos I've played there since I'm young...I jus shoot straight at him and say "pls lar, tat one is CC lor, bei hiao dun anyhow say lar".....war start, he very upset and unhappy liao....tis is not another classic example of my "chao por".....many others and ppl whom know me prob would know tat too

Seems like even if I know its right or have facts or logic backing it....my approach or delivery is just TERRIBLE and things will not turn ugly...or m I jus having a bad mood?...but once I have my facts, I sure shoot it straight...and always, result is not what I desire...if I jus ignore or let him continue thinking, peace...but I had to say tat out and make him look shitty and sour r/s.....

I must learn to change this or get around this...else my life is jus going downhill...affects my personal life, career and ppl ard me.......so everyone I know, thanks for giving me the chance and I will try to contain myself...if I don't, feel free to point it out to me...I want to CHANGE to a BETTER PERSON